Monday, April 7, 2008

Godly Grief

“For godly grief produces a repentance not to be regretted and leading to salvation, but worldly grief produces death.” (2 Corinthians 7:10 CSB)

There are two kinds of grief we can experience. One kind is “worldly grief,” which is the normal kind of human experience. We encounter this grief when we perceive a loss. The loss of a relationship, the loss of a sense of significance, and the loss of a family member to death create varying degrees of grief. This grief ranges from very difficult to extremely difficult. Paul says that this kind of grief “produces death.” This means it is related to death, and in reality, if grief is not dealt with adequately, it actually can lead to death.

The other kind of grief is referred to as a “godly grief.” This is grief that comes from the will of God. It is produced by the Holy Spirit in the hearts of believers who are sensitive to the Spirit’s inner conviction regarding sin. This kind of grief, when we listen to the Spirit’s leading, produces repentance from sin and takes us toward renewal. No one wants to have to go through this grief, but believers know how necessary it is when there is something in our lives that needs correction. This kind of grief need not be feared but, rather, should be welcomed, because we know this is God disciplining us so that we can live a life that more greatly honors Him.

Lord, We do not like the idea of grief, but we thank You that through godly grief You help us to move beyond sin and more fully into a life that glorifies You. Amen.

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